These guys play on their terms, not yours and are a total waste of time to any woman trying to forge something real and lasting.
It’s like trying to teach a fish to ride a bicycle. Women expect their relationships to be transcendent.
Okay, and for me too I’m thinking this will help in a major way when we can’t decide what we want to do and neither of us wants to make the decision.
Hence the reason I talked about my indecisiveness up there in the beginning.
Or does it all simply come down to the capriciousness of the female orgasm – since men can have an orgasm with practically anyone, they don’t much care who they’re with, whereas if a woman finds someone who’s actually good in bed she’s desperate to hang on to him?! My assistant says it’s because when they’re single, they can play video games and watch porn, and if they got a girlfriend, she’d insist they give up one or both. So, together, let’s consider why men are generally cooler with being single than women: 1. As I observed in “Why He Disappeared”, this tends to be the way that men deal with most of their relationships.
When a man hangs out with another man, he’ll watch sports, play poker, talk trash, grab a few drinks, and maybe talk about whether he’s hooking up.
So yeah, a man’s ability to separate sex and love is another valid reason he’s not terribly upset when he’s single. There are so many other personal, social and economical reasons why abstinence is a great idea. We believe that your life counts, and you are a person worth waiting for.But ultimately, it all comes down to personal choice. Your physical, emotional and mental health is irreplaceable and we want to encourage you to make the decision that you feel is best. Those are the first set of questions that go through my head. It’s a horrible combination when each time I over think something my ADD kicks in and it leads me on a different path. Back to the point of this post, Allen and I opted for new clothes and weekend trips this year for V-Day.Well, in the midst of searching for those I came across this cute idea for “Date Night In A Jar.” I tweaked it just a little and created this “Date Night In A Jar” for Allen.